My parents did nothingMy mum lived 4 hours away and my dad had no idea really. I would have loved it if they'd even thought to help me.
Brought cooked meals to your home
Watched the baby while you slept/showered
Gave you some space
Cleaning help around the home
Helping with other siblings
My parents did nothingMy mum lived 4 hours away and my dad had no idea really. I would have loved it if they'd even thought to help me.
My parents are usually pretty thoughtful. One thing that seemed to help me so much in the hospital was that mum brought me a fruit basket. It might sound like a small thing but it was so nice having fresh fruit - a sign of life in an environment that was so clinical and bare. The fibre probably helped too![]()
With DD1 she came down and looked after her so I could shower and nap, she cleaned and cooked too. With DD2 she came and looked after DD1 when I was in hospital. Once again she cleaned and cooked - however she did overstay her welcome when I got home from hospital and I did have to ask her to leave so that DP, DD1, DD2 and I could spend some time together.
After DD was born they gave us space for a few weeks and then visited for 2weeks (we lived in QLD at the time and they lived in NSW) dad didnt really do much but i appreciated his company and mum was a great help and with DS they looked after DD for us as they were visiting for the long weekend which we both really appreciated. I would have liked to spend more time with them being that we live in different states still
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