...when you are giving birth to another baby?

DS is 21 months old, he has never been left with anyone besides DH and myself. We are not sure what to do when I have the new baby in 3 months. We live a couple of hours away from family and have no friends in the area that I know well enough to leave him with.

ATM it seems that DH is just going to have to miss the birth to look after DS. He would like to be there, I don't mind labouring alone but would like him to be there for the actual birth. If it were to happen at night time there is a lady down the road that could come to the house while DS was asleep for a couple of hours but if it was during the day we are stuck.