Erin, i have started doing that too. I offer him whatever it is im having ( i always make it DS friendly ) and if he doesn't eat it, he has milk and then bed.

I was doing the whole "he cant go to bed on an empty tummy thing" and so would give him whatever he wanted, but that really doesn't work in the long run when they realise they dont have to eat what you give them, cos you'll give them what they want anyway, KWIM?