rayray, you know you raise a REALLY good point. There is one girl who only recently announced to the everyone she was pg... I already knew but most of the others didn't.

Eluned, I'm the same, if I KNEW we'd been in contact with someone then we would not be going because I think that is polite and the right thing to do by others. I'm not talking about avoiding everything lol... we still go to the shops etc, it's more about playgroup where I know this child has been in contact with it.

Thanks girls, I will try to find out the day before if she's planning on going and if she is then we won't go this week. I don't want us possibly getting it if one of them does indeed have it. It would be different if it happened but it was from someone who didn't even know they'd been in contact with it.