DS has always been a bad eater so I can't help you there, but he has gotten worse with eating, so it could be a developmental thing? Trying to get control of his surroundings (which is what they do) and this is one thing he can control? Who knows
And he is the same going to bed at night too. DH has to lie beside him or else he just cries and screams - and its just horrible. It can take up to 2 hours to get him to sleep though, which sucks.
The two girls go to sleep on their own, which makes it even more frustrating that he won't.
Thanks girls. Am on my own tonight so bed time was a little tough but not as tough as I have had before. DD1 eventually climbed into bed without me because dd2 was being a pita going to sleep. So I sat on the floor and counted to them... up to 100 then backward. dd1 got to about 80 before she was asleep.... It just seems everything with her is a real struggle! I know we need to be tough with her but we are pretty tough and then sometimes we let our guard down and she knows it! She has been really clingy towards me of late, I dont know if its an age thing or because I am pg. I cant seperate the girls coz we only have a small house. I know giving in only encourages her so I need to be strong!
This parenting thing is really tough at times.... trial and error!
Its funny the girls were at day care today and I was talking to the worker there and she also mentioned about the 1/2 year thing! That they are inbetween ages and... then I zoned out but yes, shes almost 3.5 and its getting tricky!
Olivia is and has always been a good eater, so its not actually the food thats the issue, because if I sat there and spoon fed her she would eat it all up. She just seems to have taken this helpless role on or maybe shes just lazy? I dont know? Shes also been saying that shes not a big girl and that shes a little girl.
I have tried the 'look your sister is doing that all by herself' but she doesnt really respond to that.
We have a fair few night terrors here too and sometimes it will take up to an hour to console her and get her back to sleep. I should be thankful that most of the time when she wakes me at night, she wakes me to go to the toilet. In saying that the past 2 nights she has wet the bed. No changes in routine either. Only a few weeks ago i was mentioning how well she was doing with holding her bladder overnight. I think that lasted a week!
I try and not wind things up, but I also am aware that she shouldnt be getting what she wants because her scream can wake up a whole post code! It just has me in tears at times. I dont want to cry infront of her, I dont want to cry because of her. I dont want to yell at her either. I am just finding it all a bit trying. I think my hormones dont help though and am just about cranky at everyone and am getting fairly emotional!!!
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