My second baby is now 13 months, and at an age where he's getting more independant, and is so animated and fun. It's funny how you forget how hard the last year has been. I swore I'd never go through another pregnancy, and first few months with a new baby again, but DH is talking about having another baby. So, I'm wondering if someone can tell me what it's like having 3. I would have a newborn, a two year old, and a four year old. I've found the first year with two very hard, would I manage the first year with 3? We have two boys now, and it we'd like a chance to have a girl, but certainly wouldn't be counting on that. So, what do you think?