thread: What's the norm?

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  1. #1
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    Like meow, bub has slept in the middle since birth. DH has helped equally throughout the night, sometimes more than equally. Yeah, he has to study and work, but I have a human life to be responsible for, I am breastfeeding so sometimes I'm feeling a bit drained from that, and now I'm pregnant too. We work as a team, I wouldn't personally feel comfortable with not having DH in our bed unless the situation was extreme. We've always made it work for us
    Oh, don't get me wrong....Hubby helps out a lot! and often encourages me to nap all weekend! Unfortunately I don't *do* naps hehe

    We, I guess me, just found it a lot less stressful not having to worry bout him rolling onto bubs...(I am somewhat of a control freak!)

    and then there's that snoring thing hehe

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    Does your husband typically roll out of bed? Most people learn to judge where they shouldn't roll in their sleep (unless they are under the influence).

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    Does your husband typically roll out of bed? Most people learn to judge where they shouldn't roll in their sleep (unless they are under the influence).
    He moves a LOT in bed, yet sleeps really soundly! There have been times when I would literally have to push him outta bed to wake him up! He does so like to sleep

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    I always had ex in the bed, but I preferred it when in was just me & bub. I slept with them on the outside when they were very little & had them in my arm so I was slightly uncomfortable. Ex was a very deep sleeper who never noticed when he was pushing me out of bed, so I didn't feel comfortable with a NB next to him.

    Once they started moving around they went in the middle though, DS fell off the bed a couple times (mattress on the floor thankfully)