thanks for the replies! it makes me feel better as i keep going to set it up and thinking 'what would i really need there??' - thought i was mising something.
I have a little pile of cloth nappies for spills, lining the chg mat so it isnt cold etc, a stack of nappies ready to go, apacket of wipes, sacks for nappies to be kept in before we throw out and I will put nappy rash cream too when i buy it. a few chgs of clothes a good idea too for nights, they are all in the cupboard now but i can imagine in the night good to have them right there. thanks all...