Karina, don't feel bad. It takes different lengths of time for different people. You are not a bad mum. I bonded straight away with Jack, but Tom took longer. Maybe part of the reason was bcos he arrived so quicky - 3.5 weeks early and a sudden 3 hour labour. Or maybe bcos my time was split between both boys. I'm not really sure why it took longer but it sure did happen. It will for you too sweetie.