okay i dont know how to start this so i think i will just write till its all off my chest!! okay here goes.. my DS Father has only been in his life for almost 12 mths as a result of a DNA test that i asked him to do and he agreed to be apart of my sons life and take on the role as a father and to his credit he has done that but about 2 mths after this guy found out he had a son his gf fell pregnant ive know this girl for a while and everything was ok between us as there was no need for jelousy at all that was until she fell pregnant...a few things have happened since then (july) but it got sorted out until the other day i found out that the gf dad STILL doesnt know that her partner already has a son and this is not his firstborn..i also heard that she didnt want Zayviers name in the birth notice i can understand that this is her first and she wants the spotlight on her but she could even put little half-sister for Zayvier if she wants to seggregate him that wouldnt bother me and they had their child friday night and the father hasnt come to get Zayvier yet to go meet his sister and he is the type of guy that if i try to talk to him about it he will fly off the handle...i just dont know what to do and ive got the worst feeling that hes going to have the at first sight love with this child because hes been there from the startand hes going to love her more than his first born son because Zayvier was 13mths when he found out about him!! i just dont know what to do im really angry but not because i want to get angry im angry for my son who has to miss out..like i understand that they want to bond with there baby i get that but i havnt even has so muchy as a text saying let Zayvier know he has a little sister her name is.... i just do so much to make them feel comfortable and it just feel like it gets thrown back in my face...hmm i think im done!!