thread: When do you do your housework - with a baby/toddler?

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  1. #1
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    Jul 2006
    Logan
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    With 3 little ones at home I find it hard to do much past the essentials. I put my nappies in the wash at night and hang them out, as soon as I get up I put on the 1st load of washing, then get breakfast, after breakfast the kids get dressed, I usually put on ABC TV for the kids and then I hang out washing, put on another load and clean up breakfast and make beds.

    From there my day varies. I may make dinner in the morning or I do activities with the kids. Then it is lunch time and quiet time for about 2 hours (my toddler and baby will sleep hopefully in this time but not always). Usually I'll get a job like cleaning the bathroom/toilets/clean a bedroom or I make dinner.

    Then it is afternoon activity time, plus I get the washing off the line. Then dinner/clean up/bath time/bed time. All this ends around 8pm to 9pm. Then I clean my floors or fold washing or clean my kitchen.

    2 of my girls go to daycare once a week and I always do a bigger job like cleaning out cupboards, rooms or paper work on these days.

    Tip for your bathroom: Get yourself a good microfiber cloth and give your bathroom a once over when your ds in the bath. Wipe over the benches and put stuff back in its place. Empty the bath as soon as you are finished and quickly put any bath toys away. You'll be amazed at how good your bathroom looks and you won't need to do a big clean as often.

    Oh and I found having 2 kids easier than one. I never had time with one child...go figure


    Sorry to write a long story. hth

    BTW - If the kids are playing happily I'll get a job or two in until the wars start
    Last edited by BekZ; February 11th, 2010 at 09:04 PM. : Adding

  2. #2
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    Sep 2008
    Adelaide
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    The standard of my house cleanliness has definately dropped since becoming a Mum, but I find that it really changes, some days DS will have a nice big sleep and I get heaps done, other times I go for days with barely getting anything done.

    When my DS has his morning nap I go into overdrive - chuck on a load of washing, make bed, tidy house, unload dishwasher, get something out for dinner, and have a shower!! But often house cleaning eg bathrooms etc get done with DH is home and he spends time with DS (and although it sounds crazy, nicking of to the bathroom to scrub away for 20 mins with my own thoughts is kinda relaxing sometimes - who woulda thought? LOL)

  3. #3
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    Apr 2008
    The Purple House, Sydney
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    Just wanted to add, I have a 'minimum code of household conduct' which includes- washing done, kitchen tidy, beds made, toilets wiped over with toilet paper and givena quick scrub with a brush, vanity wiped down, general tidy and toy pick up. If that's done, I'm happy. Anything else can bite me

  4. #4
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    Nov 2004
    Melbourne VIC
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    I struggle most days. Dishes/kitchen are done while DS is eating in his high chair. I put a load of washing on at the same time.
    Washing is folded while we are playing on the floor - it takes forever as he likes to "help" but we get there! As for floors/dusting/bathroom/toilet it all gets done on the weekend when DH is around to help out. DS is a light sleeper so I try not to make too much noise at night. I seem to lack motivation at the moment which doesn't help either. All the stopping and starting of little jobs sends me bonkers so I prefer to do it all in a big block of time while DH looks after DS.

  5. #5
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    Sep 2005
    In the middle of nowhere
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    I make my bed and tidy my room as soon as I get up, then wipe over the ensuite and clean the toilet as soon as I'm done with it in the morning so at least that is done.

    Unstack the dishwasher in the morning while make the brekkies so i can just stack it in the day time.
    Hang out the washing in the mornings with the kids outside for a game.
    Umm
    I take 10minutes every morning for a quick tidy
    we have 'pick up time' at 5pm where everybody who is present has to help to pick up all the foreign objects that have migrated to the wrong spots.
    Clean the main bathroom while the kids are in the bath.
    Clean the showers while I'm in them (I shower in the main shower once a week to do so lol).
    Clean the kitchen while DH pays with the kids after dinner.
    Dust one room per day (only take 5ish minutes) - Nate is the best duster of skirting boards lol - Darcy usually just follows chatting.
    Vaccuum when DH is around (both my kids don't do noise well at all).
    Mop when they're all asleep.

  6. #6
    BellyBelly Member

    Feb 2007
    1,029

    In the morning, I make our bed while attending to DS when DH is in the shower before he goes to work. DH helps me by looking after DS while I shower and he also unpacks the dishwasher before he heads out the door at 8.00am.

    I wash clothes on Monday, Thursday and Saturday, we go away quite a bit at weekends so it does take me a couple of days to get the house in order when that happens. DS loves to push the buttons on the washing machine and mucks about in the laundry while I am in there.

    I vacuum when DS is awake in the morning, he loves to push it around so I let him go for his life. I mop the same day when he is asleep which is once a week. I nearly always clean up after every meal (clear table, shake tablecloth, vacuum under table) otherwise it really does build up by the end of the day. I have a cordless upright Electrolux which is the best money I have ever spent. No more sweeping, it gets all the crumbs so easily.

    I clean up after dinner and DH gives DS his bath then, I am usually finished by the time DS is ready for bed.

    Toilets are done once a week, a quick wipeover with a Flushable cleaning wipe.

    Bathrooms more so on weekends so I can clean the shower while I am having a shower and DH can look after DS.

  7. #7
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    Aug 2009
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    HAHA! When I can.

    Getting easier now Charlie will actually detach a little and play by herself.

    I clean the shower/bath while i'm in it (shower over the bath so 2 birds one stone)
    Charlie watches the chooks while I hang the clothes on the line but that's soon to stop because she's just realised she can crawl (eeeek)
    Unpack dishwasher while Charlie is eating dinner for repacking after dinner
    Fold clothes as I get them off the line if it's not too hot and stack in some logical order
    Vacuum while Charlie playing or if she's feeling clingy and grizzly I stick her in my ring sling and she falls asleep (vacuum cleaner and sling EVERY TIME)
    Mop the floors on the way to bed
    put a load of nappies on straight after Charlie's brekky and they're done after Charlie's morning nap (IF SHE NAPS)
    Rest I try to do as I go and I make sure I keep a few microfibre dusters around (in sidetable draw, phone table, lounge draw) so as I go put something away and such I whip the duster around and it's maintained

    Blackduckies, I agree we do need some ME time.

  8. #8
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    Jun 2008
    Tasmania
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    Thanks ladies! You all sound so busy! Some handy tips there. Hopefully it will get easier as DS gets older as well.

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    Melbourne
    175

    i have an 11month old crawler and trying to walker and i have 2 dogs that sheds hair like crazy so i vacuum when dd is having her morning nap but when its closer to waking time and mop during her afternoon nap and mop again before i go to sleep. i find i have to do much more cleaning with 2 dogs around because im paranoid of all the dog hairs etc