When does 45 min catnapping end?

[StrawberryMumma]

Hi Deidre

It's hard isn't it!
Do you mean she is doing it just for day sleeps?
My DD is 10 months and she still only sleeps for 40 mins at a time for her day sleeps..probably not what you wanted to hear!

Hope things get easier for you very soon..

[Mother Goose]

I'm also sorry to be the bearer of bad news... my DD is 13 months and still only sleeps for about 30-45 minutes for her nap/s. On the (very) rare occassion she sleeps longer than that, it is usually because she is having a growth spurt, teething, or sick. Sorry.

MG

[~Trish~]

Hi Deirdre, we still struggle with this now, but it slowed down a bit when DS turned 4 months old. I just kept persisting with getting him back to sleep and we *usually* get two long naps a day followed by a short nap. He is unwell atm so he is bit all over the place. I found with DS#1 that he grew out of it at around 6 months of age. Unfortunately it is different for every baby so you can never really know if/when it will stop! Keep working on it and I'm sure it will pay off for you

[Olive]

yep were the same!! rarely goes over 45 mins!! the occasional 60 mins!!m
how many sleeps is she having during the day?

[KatieRabbit]

It is nearly always day sleeps that she does it- very occasionally a 7pm or 10pm sleep. I wouldn't mind her doing it but she is still so tired and needs more sleep. If she was alert and happily awake at 45 mins it would be fine, but she's not.
May I ask ladies, when your bubs first started going through the waking, would you pick them up or try to get them to self-settle? What I am wondering is if not allowing them to self-settle (as it involves too much crying) will set me up down the track for a DD who won't sleep past 45mins iykwim?

[KatieRabbit]

AJP- she actually sleeps fairly well. After waking in the morning she has two lots of two hour sleeps during the day until the afternoon when she has a few 45mins. She sleeps fairly well at night well from 7pm till 7am with 3 feeds in that time with a period of 2-3hrs unsettled in that time too. But keeping her awake more than an hour during the day makes her very tired, then overtired and then impossible to settle!

[Emma1979]

hi there
at that age my dd was a cat napper, and i was lucky if i could get her to have a nap at all.... geez im glad we are over that hump.... from around 8 months or so she started sleeping longer, on occassions.... i tried for ages to re-settle her after the 45mins but gave up as i found it too stressful and highly unsuccessful.... if would just get her up after the 45mins and hope for the best, although clearly she was still tired.... now at 12 months she often sleeps for an hour and a half, sometimes two hours, and sometimes 45 minutes, i never try to re-settle because it just hasn't worked in the past and i feel as though its a waste of time.... we just cope on what naps she has and make the best of it.... its up to you whether you want to try to re-settle, just wanted to highlight if it is not getting you anywhere and causing you more angst, there is hope that she may sleep for longer periods of time when she is older... i dont think you will 'teach' her to wake after 45mins.... im a firm believer in 'you can't MAKE them sleep' god knows i tried!! good luck i know exactly how you feel, it is very tough, but it gets easier!!

[summerluven]

My DS was a catnapper as well, and kinda figured it all out after about 4 months or so? I really can't remember, but the good thing was that it stopped, because it didn't leave me with much time to get stuff done before he was wailing at me again.

I know that some babies just figure it out and start doing longer sleeps, and others have to be really coached in to it, but all the kiddies that I know who have just figured it out have done so at about 4 months or so.

Good luck with it, I hope she starts getting more sleep soon. It's horrible when they wake up tired and grumpy but wont sleep any longer!

[shellbell3]

My DD was always a catnapper and this didn't stop til she went down to one sleep a day. But the difference was that my DD seemd to survive well on just catnaps. I hope you find some answers to help you.