Thanks all! I really appreciate your feedback.

I think I'm just going to play it by ear (isn't that what parenthood is all about anyways ) and she how she goes day-to-day.

SammyRo: I've found that DD is the same in that she sleeps better at night when she's only had the one day sleep, but in saying that, today she went down for an arvo sleep with no dramas coz we'd been to mother's group and she'd had a huge play with all the kids.

So yep, we'll see how we go tonight!!

Thanks again!!