My girls are.....10 months and 27 days apart

I love the small gap. Yes its hard work with 2 under 12 months. Chelsea is at the age where she wants to be with you and demands attention, isnt TT, does not understand she cant jump over Jasmine and Jas cant play with her etc....

But theres no way i would change anything. As for an ideal gap....maybe 14 months or so....im lucky i have DH 24/7 to help...otherwise id be insane!!