just follows me. I actually think of it as a small achievement if I manage to go the loo without one of them coming to find me, lol. same as the shower, all 4 come out of no-where as soon as they hear it and I end up with 4 in the shower with me.
I know what you mean!! I get up early JUST to have a shower on my own, and dont bother anymore, because all i accomplish is waking up2 children way too early, and having them grumpy in the shower with me!! Declan likes to sit on his potty if either Xander of myself are on the toilet. Its so cute!!