Where is my libido?

[Taurean]

Heather, PMSL! I kind of know what you mean! DH can be good but he's a bit lazy in the rack sometimes and I generally like my man to take charge in the bedroom....which reading that back, is pretty bloody lazy too really! We are doomed, LOL!

MrsWright - love your analogy! I love Doritos...mmmm... can I convert them to sex?

PollyA - we have tried date nights and they did actually work at first so we decided last night to give it another go, tonight being date night... wish me luck!

I may need to take my post to a more appropriate forum...LOL!

[boobaloo]

when you find your libido, ask it if it's seen mine???
which is funny, i have bloody raunchy dreams, but can't be arsed doing it in real life...

[onthefly]

HAve an ask round for mine too, while you're at it.
My main reason is exhaustion. Years of sleep deprivation will do that apparently.

[Chickoin]

i have bloody raunchy dreams, but can't be arsed doing it in real life...

This is my problem too, the dreams are satisfying enough...

[Nai]

I think they are all on holiday together - I haven't seen mine around for a while either.....

[Miss.September]

Maybe they've all been left behind in the birthing suites?

[~Hestia~]

Yep send mine back too when you find it! I've been off the mini pill for about a month but am still BF, I'm sure that's got something to do with it! That plus I'm on my own for over 14 hours in the day & am tiiiirrrreeed.

[Snacks]

Those are valid reasons IMO

I find that once I start to O again I get mine back, which means any hormonal contraception for me really reduces my sex drive.
Also, the tired factor plays a big part, but I am happy to stay up late if DH helps me with housework. If I don't feel run off my feet, just tired, then I am up for it. Don't know if this is relevant to your situation, but DH is less disappointed now he knows what he needs to do (e.g. THE DISHES!) to get me in the mood.

[boobaloo]

I think they are all on holiday together - I haven't seen mine around for a while either.....

i think that would be called a Contiki vacation... lol

[Calluna]

I wonder what they're doing together on thier holiday? Something naughty no doubt....

Maybe we should ask someone who's libido hasn't run off to go find ours and bring them back? Although I'd feel terrible for the person if thier libido got distracted and joined in as well.

[boobaloo]

I wonder what they're doing together on thier holiday? Something naughty no doubt....

god, could you imagine??? my guess is that they're drinking sangria in spain, dancing till the wee hours, then going back to the hotel to shag themselves silly.
lucky bastards.