I hear ya Sammi, I too have one of those whingy, sulky little boys. Somebody please send me the SUPER NANNY!!!!! I swear he is still suffering from the terrible 2's even though he is 3. I hope it just is like you say 'a difficult phase'...difficult - most definately, phase - it better be. I don't have any advice Sammi, believe me if I had found something that worked I would share...

Good Luck!!!