I may have posted something similar to this else where but I'm so sleep deprived I can't remember. My issue (one of many) at the moment is that I feel like my DS (4.5 month old) has become very whingy when we go out. It feels like I spend most of the time comforting him or trying to get him to go to sleep. I think the reason he's so grumpy is that he doesn't sleep much during the day and gets overtired (no matter how hard I try to put him to sleep). Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that I never feel like I can relax when I go out because I feel like all he does is cry. Most other babies seem fairly content to me and don't seem to cry like Lincoln. I try to give him to other people to hold and he just cracks up. Then I have to try and resettle him (which can take a while). My DH thinks very differently about the situation and thinks I over react. He doesn't think he cries that much but I do. Does anyone else feel like their babies cry alot because they're tired and do they have difficulties when others want to hold their babies because they cry at that too? Sorry for rambling - I'm very tired and feel so anxious all the time. I know you can't always know why your baby cries and I should try to relax more but am finding it very difficult.