I dunno.. there are people out there who come across as dissatisfied in a way. My SIL was sooo disappointed to have a boy and a girl.. she reckons it's too 'typical'. Sheesh! I'll be happy with however our family turns out! And she's one that had loads of problems, told she'd never conceive, really bad endo etc etc etc. Almost died after #1, and told not to have #2.. but she did, so nearly died again. Yet she still gives off this dissatisfied air about her. You'd think she'd be grateful for having her family at all!

But I don't think expressing how big you'd like to have your family necessarily shows this dissatisfaction.

I guess people could be more sensitive in the way they express it, seeing as there are people who dearly would love to plan for large families but have many problems in the way.