Sorry to hear you're going through this - it's no fun at all if they hate it.

Keenan loved his baths up until recently, so we were fairly lucky. He suddenly loves them again now.... Go figure! LOL

I know there's a big difference in age between Keenan now and Emma now, but I just made sure his bath was the same temp (about 37 or 38 degrees) and made it as calm in the room as possible - nice and quiet, had everything ready and absolutely no distractions. Same routine and time every night.

Have you tried putting her in the shower with you (gently of course) - that worked for us occasionally as a last resort.

Some people say to wrap them while they're in the bath (in a cloth nappy or the like)- but I just don't know if this would have worked for us - I think I would've been too worried about geting tangled ( but that's just me LOL)

Hope someone can help you!