I've finally had a doctor comment on DD's weight. I feel like such a lousy mother right now

She's had tonsilitis so hasn't been at all interested in eating anything, she only wants bottles so have been giving her as many as she wants. I thought that was enough to maintain her weight but she has lost close to 2kgs in the last 3 weeks and i feel absolutely awful about it.

People ALWAYS comment on how little she is, i get snide comments that i need to feed her more and i get asked do i even feed her at all!

I have offered her all kinds of food, ive left food on the floor, on her sofa and she grazes throughout the day but its obviously not enough. She doesn't like being fed and ive resorted to force feeding her which i absolutely HATE doing to her. I growl at her and bribe her to open her mouth and eat.

The doctor has ordered a pee sample which we'll get results back on tuesday, if it shows anything we'll get a referral to a pediatrician for further tests. He wants me to go into some program, QE2 and have us both monitored and learn how to feed her. God that just makes me sound so awful

He did say that she is a very active toddler so that may be why she's so little but he wants a second opinion. I also hope they dont think we are neglecting her...