Why is he like this?

[boomba]

Its so tough in the beginning learning about your new little human. I would follow his cues and just let him sleep/feed when he wants and things will fall into place. He is still so tiny and learning all about the outside world. You are doing a great job

[courts&munchkins]

All 3 of my kids started off going to bed 9/9:30pm, dd is still in that stage. By 3-4 months the boys were going to bed by 7pm. And I am sure dd will be the same. Things just kind of fall into place, generally when you have given up on things changing lol.