I understand that feeling very well. I'm back at work 5 days a week now (FT) so I had real issues with leaving Daniel. He is in a CC centre that is just great. I often sneak in and watch him do his thing and interact with the other kids. You can just see he loves it there.

Daniel knows that when I walk away in the morning that I'll definitely be back. He does have a sook some mornings as I leave, but his carers are so familiar to him that he isn't worried. He's just stoked when he sees me again.

It's a genuine "motherly" concern, but when I see Daniel enjoying himself so much my concerns melt away. If your DD is staying with very familiar people, including your DH, there isn't anything to worry about. She won't harbour any ill feelings towards you - are kids really even able to harbour ill feelings?