It is hard I completely understand.

We are now just realising how hard it is for things like Parent teacher interviews and so fourth where we have to decide which parent goes rather than both.

I have a few friends who do offer and I do take them up on it occasionally but I don't want to wear out my welcome iykwim

My other issue is we really can't afford to pay someone either so its rock and hard place.

*hugs*
Cailin