I'm sorry, but I am stealing your thread! It sounds like you were helped and it seems like the right place to ask. I have two questions
1) Suddenly she cries when I wash her hair - screams. Never did it before, just suddenly started about a week ago. I sing and talk gently, but she don't like me touching her head. Could someone give me advise on this?
2) I want to try the shower thing, please could somebody tell me exactly how to do it. Can her head go under the spray? What if water goes in her ears? (Don't want to let her get ear-infection) How do you soap her up and keep her from slipping out of your arms? Do you sit down in the shower? How do you dress at the same time? It's freezing here!!

Ok, it more that two questions