It sounds as though you have interaction with her all day. How does one find sooo many activities. DS has just started walking and if I was to let him out he'd completely just run off and refuse to get in the pram and the tantrums would begin.

I've ordered a harness to keep him in arms reach.

Its hard to explain. It's never really average. If he gets cranky he'll go to from 0-100 and just crack it

I'm at the stage where I don't want to go out or even interact as much in fear of a tantrum. And I don't want that! I want to have fun with him