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  1. #1
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    Mar 2007
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    Don't worry you are NOT alone!! My little 14mth old baby girl is doing the same thing, she's been rather clingy and whingy lately and although she has been sick the last week (we had gastro very badly at our house) the poor thing is still not that 100% just yet. But yes they get bored really easily. I think it's just a stage.... it will pass. Just remember the motto every mother should live by "this too shall pass" hehe

    you're doing a great job - we all are .... when my DD is like this, I try to remember that one day she will be older and won't want to be around me so I try to make the most of it but it's hard some days hey.

  2. #2
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    Jun 2008
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    PJ

    Sorry, no advice. But you are NOT a bad mum, not at all - it's just all part of being a mum, we have good periods and bad periods. I hope things start to look up soon!

  3. #3
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    Sep 2005
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    PJ - nope you def are not alone.
    Think I had blocked this stage out from DD, but DS is just unreal!
    I'm going with the stage thing too...gotta be a light at the end

  4. #4
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    Oct 2006
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    Mine were, and still are at times, whingers too.

    I remind my 3yo constantly when she whinges "talk to me in a normal voice please" "is that your normal voice or your yucky voice?" "is that the way to ask or is there a better way, without whinging, and in a normal voice?" etc etc

    It works in the moment then she'lll forget again... but I'm trying to be consistent so she learns the right way to speak to me and others.

    I think its very very common though. We just try not to give in to her requests if she's whinging for them, and reward her when she speaks properly and nicely.

  5. #5
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2008
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    Ohh hun i hear u my dd's 14 months too it must be a stage hopefully! it is horrible i know, ive been trying to distract dd when it starts. doesnt help with the new teeth coming through either.. hopefully we both can get through this stage lol

    if u ever need a chat or vent pm me hun xx

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    Mar 2008
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    Hugs hon, you are not a bad mum!!!! My DD is 13 months, so I'm sure this is coming up to me too, but she has her days! She's definately protesting against the word "NO" right now!

    Corelly x

  7. #7
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2008
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    Awww corelly im with u there!!

    Im having big issues with getting NO across to dd too

  8. #8
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    May 2009
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    I know that Im late reading this, but my 14 month old did exactly the same thing for about 3 weeks and it was just SO tiresome. He shrieked and whined ALL day and he wouldn't even let me hug him. Then it got remarkably worse - then one day, pop a molar tooth plus a change of sleep cycle - turns out he wanted to go from 2 to 1 sleep per day. It was HELL and then it got better. Stay strong, it will pass.