Thanks MadB!
I have an ergo and a baby beijorn so I'm well equiped to try anything! Even with 2 other kids you forget the whole newborn thing and I guess I'm sleep deprived and looking for reassurance or any other tips to get him to sleep for more than a 20 minute cycle by himself!
Fingers crossed he sorts himself out soon enough! I feel terrible but I just dont have the time to spend shooshing and patting his bottom and being in and out of his room I feel terrible saying that but its true! If I do I then feel guilty for neglecting the other two who want to play or eat or go outside!