thread: Anyone else have a baby that dont sleep?

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  1. #1
    Platinum Member. Love a friend xxx

    Jan 2008
    hoppers crossing
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    it doesn't get any better. just have to go with it

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Euroa, Victoria
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    Are you trying to put him down for a nap every hr to hr half?
    He could be overtired?
    Is he feeding ok?
    Have you got a wedge under him so he is on a bit of an angle or tried sleeping him on his side?
    I know it is hot but have you tried wrapping him? Maybe just a nappy and a muslin wrap?
    Do you have a nice nap routine going on so that he knows it is time for a little sleep?
    Just throwing ideas, sorry not much help.
    I hope it gets better for you.

  3. #3
    smiles4u Guest

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    Oh, i sooooo feel for you

    My DD had severe colic from 3.5weeks old to 4.5months old ... and she only ever slept 30-40mins in the morn and 30-40mins in the arvo

    She was a good sleeper at night time (very lucky there) ... she would only wake up at about 4 or 4.30am for a feed & nappy change

    Sorry no real cure here for you ... Only suggestion have you tried swaddling bub in a light weight wrap (they love to be cosy & tight like in the womb) ... Hope you will be ok ... just remember it won't last forever (fingers crossed ) !!

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    Adelaide, SA
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    I have a 14 month old who still doesn't sleep! Sorry, probably not what you wanted to hear but I just wanted to offer my sympathy and a hug.
    I have no answers for you as I can't even fix my own!

  5. #5
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    Jun 2008
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    DS 1 set his own routine quite early on and would have long feeds and long sleeps - was still having 3 -4 hr arvo sleeps when he was 2.

    This new baby feeds often and does not have big sleeps and can go for ages without sleeping. I remember ds 1 used to just doze off sometimes, but not this guy - yet anyway.

    I wonder if I should give him a rountine, but managing that with a 6yr olds life is not something I am finding easy.
    Anyway, he is finally asleep now. Feed him lying down on DS1 bed. I darent move him though, cause he is a light sleeper and wakes easy...actually he is waking up right now ...well that was another half hr.

  6. #6
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    Jan 2008
    Euroa, Victoria
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    I'm not one for routines in an 'at this time you will do thi' kind of thing but I think that patterns work well.

    For us that looks like:
    Get up and have a bottle
    Have some solids (obviously you are not at this stage yet!)
    Have a play
    Have a nap

    I had a lot of trouble when DS was new cos I had no idea that he needed so much sleep! He would get cranky not long after a feed and a little play and I would try and placate him with toys and cuddles and more entertainment when all he needed was a sleep. So I would try and put him to sleep at the first sign of any whinging etc. And Voila! He sleeps!

    I'd definitely try and get into a feed play sleep pattern and best as you can with a 6 yr old too.

    I hope it works for you.

  7. #7
    BellyBelly Member

    Jul 2006
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    Hi Salsa

    It DOES get better hun, hang in there x

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    Registered User

    Jun 2007
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    Have you got a baby swing? That works wonders for DD who wasn't a good sleeper earlier on. Now at 8 months she is much better, she just decided on her own to stop catnapping and now sleeps for at least 1 1/2 hrs for each nap. As others have mentioned I found swaddling tight helped a lot...

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    May 2007
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    Lol - beautiful madness! haha

    i think you and i must have a similar child!!