Thanks for the replies.
I have used some of the suggestions and over this past week things have been better.
Last weekend was terrible and I figured I needed to get straight onto those early tired signs. So although its been a bit tough with balancing a young school kid and new baby I have been managing to get baby off to sleep in his bed for 4 mornings in a row now!
Im starting to see a slight pattern emerging for him, but evenings are still a bit tricky. I believe we will get there though. Im finally starting to understand what his cues are.
I think it has been really important getting him to sleep in the morning after breakfast, other wise that seems to screw up the rest of the day if he dose not.
He does not have long sleeps (half hr), but they are happening! Better than the 10mins that he was doing. I assume if I keep consistant, then his sleeps will lengthen.
oh, and I have found that the feed, play, sleep routine needs to be feed, play, feed, sleep for him.