hell yeah!

i don't think it's behaviour modification, because you are your childs teacher, they are learning for the first time. I would like my children to respect others, basically in my house my rules go, and if others don't like that then they can go jump. I would expect my children to respec the rules of any house they go to as well.

at our house ds is not allowed to help himself to the pantry or fridge or dvd's, or he won't get them he can play with any of his toys he likes and occasionally gets a reminder he needs to pack some up before getting anymore out, and if I have to pack them all up, they dissapear completley.
he is taught to hold hands when we go out, and that if he can't we will not go out.
he is also praised when he does these things without reminders.