I think it's a good idea and want to do it with my family and in-laws when this bub comes.

My only problem is that there are some family members that are broke and will not be able to pay for it. I would offer to pay for them but then should I be offering to pay for everyones? Also, DH asked "what if someone has a bad reaction to it?" Now I'm torn.

I guess it's just a matter of saying to people "we are not forcing you to have it done, and will not be offended if you don't as that is your choice, but please then understand that if you don't we will choose to have you not handle the baby".

Isn't it horrible that you have to stress so much at what should be such a happy time?