alot of different opinions is great. thanks everyone! as i am not actually pregnant yet, i am thinking getting the contraceptive needle so we can sort things out first. 3 months ago i went off the pill because i had trouble getting my period- after 6 years which i thought was weird but i had tests taken and nothing was wrong so i didnt bother to go back on it. as i was comming down from it, my mood swings and hormones were all out of whack and my poor partner copped it all.
so thats why im not sure whether to get the needle or not? would it be worth it? has anyone had it? what are the side effects?
i am reluctant to get it because we both want to have a baby but its just our finances, i realise we are never going to be financially ready so thats why im sussing it out.