i am a first time mum to a four week old - have no idea really about what i am doing. help..... my baby was good when putting her down to sleep but the last few days she is very clingy and starts screaming when she is not touching me. is the only option to let her cry herself to sleep??? i cant really do this for more than a few minutes. i am in townsville so it it too hot at the moment to 'wear' her all the time. help....