Saram - i had to laugh and do a double take - your son is 50!

But, Megan, i would agree with RF on this as well. I think if your DSS was your own, then, maybe things would be different, but, i think he might have issues already with teh seperation of his parents, and it might just be alot for him to deal with to have to share a room as well. On top of seeing his daddy have another baby, and his daddy be in a 'new family' iykwim?