LOL Vixstar, this bfing thing can take a while to get used to. The good news is that it gets much easier as you gain experience and confidence. When I think back to how unsure I was of everything with DS1 for so long I can't believe how far I've come.

If those positions aren't working for you, don't worry too much about it. Just keep going and see what happens. Oversupply and forceful letdown both usually ease by about 6 - 8 months.