Now don't get me wrong, I have and will continue to vaccinate Alexander - because DF is very Science minded and there is no arguing with him and vaccinations. It annoys me no end that he won't look at research with me but I have given up, for now. Anyway....
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OT but it always really p.isses me off that women say this. You obviously feel strongly about not vaxxing or else you wouldn't have gotten upset about the episode. So why is it up to you to prove to your DF anything!!! You are the mother, your beliefs and values are important and valid. Why isn't up to your DF, if he is really so science minded, to prove TO YOU!!!! that vaccinating is safe?!?!


you are both parents.... your opinions count just as much as his!! more so if you are the primary carer! Why does he get his way and you and, more importantly your child, just have live with his inability to listen to other ideas?? sounds unfair to me.