Out of control!!! pls helpppppp

[*Sparklez*]

OMg no any help is a VERY BIG HELP!!!

We havent actually taken him as yet cause everyone says that if we do dr's will just wanna put him on drugs etc..
Yeah me and his dad are together and he gives him just as much as a hard time as he does me... Maybe abit worse reallly..
Oh and we definently pick him up and leave and believe me its not without great effort we are now just wanting to stay home cause every outing is sooo exhausting..

I feel so bad for him i really do it makes me wanna cry cause he is sooo crazy at times and i dont wanna scream at him or get angry cause i fear thats all he sees me as and i hate that thought causehe is also very emotional.

I take him to play centres and out to parks and bike rides anything i think that would get him to be happy and behave i try... i really do.. When he does not behave i dont threaten him i do just grab him and go i dont give him chances anymore cause it doesnt work.. I warn him the night before to try and get him to be good for a little bit of a break for myself maybe a tad selfish but i am getting so tired lately i just want a tinee winee break lol

He has his good side and is the most beautiful little boy when he wants to be i promise that he goes to pre-school for stimulation and socialising but he even gives them a hard time he has his favourites there and sum not so much (teachers i mean)..

As for his diet i am definently going to look into that and see what else i can find and try as i just want my special little boy back..

P.s my SIL son is autistic and has adhd as well, and they behave very similar do you think this could be a link at all??

[~ Zarava Flutterby ~]

I would suggest taking him to a Dr, you don't HAVE to give him drugs and not all Dr's are like that, i think if you can find a cause for the issues then you can look at natural methods to help control it or atleast it will give you more of an idea as to whats going on.
You may even like to see a naturopath, they could possibly help!

I hope it settles soon for you, sounds like your doing all the right things but it's prob best you get it all checked now b4 bubs comes along. You never know having a little sister might just calm him down.

[Livinthedream]

P.s my SIL son is autistic and has adhd as well, and they behave very similar do you think this could be a link at all??

From what I have read/heard, yes. They say that with these types of kids early intervention/therapys are REALLY important. As much as you just want your DS to behave like a "normal" kid, the sooner you can find the triggers/reasons for these behaviours, the better off you will all be. Best of luck. xx