heaven - I know what you mean, but no - this happens whether he wakes up of his own accord, or if we get him up ...

also, we can't really leave him to wake himself up every morning, because I have to get to the train station for work by a certain time, so we leave him as long as we can if he's still asleep, but if he hasn't woken up, we just have to get him up and into the car. we always do lots of cuddles and kisses, though