Awe... thankyou so much for your reply you have made me feel a lil better its just nice to hear im not doing anything wrong. i will definatly try differant dummy's i cant beleive i didnt think of that i wasnt sure as to what age i should be trying to get him into a routine i have had so many people tell me the earlier the better but i agree with you it is a little early i guess, as tried & tested i dont think 6 weeks is advisable as it failed and i just felt missrable for it. as for his signs i was so in touch with them but seems as tho there now changing now i think about it he is becomming more alert to his suroundings & forming his own little personality more so, so i guess we'l just have to ride it out together & relearn his new body language & signs. Once again THANKYOU so much for the advice

Cass