OMG Cheryl, I could of written this post word for word!
My DS will be 11 months in a few days and he is exactly the same, I too am at my witts end and everyone and everything seems to be suffering because of it!
Unfortunately I have no answers either, just a big hug to let you know you are not alone!
I'll be keeping an eye on this thread as well, hopefully someone has some answers for both of us!
xxx