Thanks for asking OP,

She has been really good the last week, back to only waking once. DH is still away (gets back the 29th ).
Neither of my DD's have been away from me overnight yet, even when in labor I was still here to put DD1 to sleep and was home the next day by lunch time. I have no idea what will happen when the time comes (May next Year) that we are both away (me only 6 days) from them. I think I will be worse off then them.

I did notice that both times he has gone away have included a wonder week. Now I just hope I have not jinxed myself