I find it hard to co-sleep as my partner sleeps like a log and flings his arms about a bit. I worry he will hit her... Also, I am so tired lately that I don't feel safe having her on my side in case she falls out. No one really to help out during the day, all our family are in NZ and friends are working, busy with their own kids etc. the older ones do go to daycare on Friday, but I'm forever chasing my tail with cooking, cleaning and washing, so usually try to catch up a bit on this day, I know I shouldn't bother but at least I feel better if I accomplish something other than just child care.

Thanks ladies for your replies. At least I'm not alone, it sure feels like it at 1am, then 2.30, then 4.....😁