im losing the battle , DS just turned 2 and omg has turned feral as well , there any soo many tantrums a day and it leaves me in tears , i get NO time with him as he is too busy doing stuff hes not supposed to do and when i go up to him and try to disipline him he runs away or starts squealing before i get to him , he knows hes done wrong but keeps doing it ...

from the momet he wakes up he is all tanties , breakfast is first , where he tells me he wants to eat , then throws it back at me , wont sit at the table of simply tips it on the floor and walk away , If i turn the tv off he begs for it to be back on ( i usually redirect him here , we go out side)

but the food thing really ****es me off ,... he asks for food but harldy touches any of it ...

there are days where he wont sleep and is hidoeus in the evenings ..

I use planned ignoring if what he is doing is attn grabbing and hes not hurting any ones , I also use time out if i have asked him to stop doing something and he keeps on doing it , he goes to time out for 2 mins ..

BUT that doenst help the frequeny of the bloody tanturms ... i can hardly tend to dd as i am just so over both of them crying for one reason or antoher ..

i am soooo at the end of the rope .. i can not deal with this , all of my friends say they dont have trobles with tanties , and look at me like im a slack parent ..

I dont smack , altough i am tempted to , ( but its more likr taking my frustration out on him , which is not fair) some days i just want to wallop him .. but i dont ... i just do what i think is right and lo and behlold , a few mins later i have another tanty on my hands

DH is at his end too .. he had enough (although he doesnt cop the brunt of it , he comes home to a crying wife and ****ty kid )

HOW do i change this .. is YOUR toddler a tanty chucker ??? what am i doing wrong ???