Thanks for everyones reponses...still confused though

The main problem I seem to be having at the moment is finding somewhere to look at beds, as I didn't really like the quality and types of beds at SuperAmart - but we have formed a list of places we can look at which will attempt to visit tomorrow.

Also still not sure whether to go single bunks or single (possibly themed)- but don't think we will do the toddler sized bed as not sure who mentioned it (can't remember if I saw it on here or somewhere else), but would like the bed to have just enough room for us to lay down or sit on the bed with him to read or even comfort if need be.

Will keep you posted on what we end up with and how it works ( it all works anyway )