is it bad to let her sleep in my arms until she is in a deep sleep, say 20mins and then put her down? will i create a bad habit?
I would call this a 'loving habit'. I almost always rock/cuddle Bailey to sleep and will continue to do so until he will no longer let me (I can see him at 18yo telling me it's just not working anymore LMAO). Get those precious cuddles in while you can, they grow up too quickly, and enjoy the few moments of getting to sit and relax yourself