Like I have said, if I could change the word "perfect" in this thread, I would. I just wanted peoples experiences the first few weeks compared to weeks after. Unlike a great deal of others, I have no family here and ask many questions that obviously in this case could of been better articulated.
This is one of them. Anyone know if I can change the title of this thread? and how?
Why do you want to change it? You used the term perfect, and later defined it as 'happy, sleeping babies'. If that is what your question is about, and your definition, then stick to it. Changing the title isn't going to change if people agree with you or not or are striving for the same thing in a child.