Murraycod, it's terrible isn't it? Something I forgot to mention earlier is the first night it happened DS had woken up at 3am in the morning screaming "Mummy, Mummy!!!" It scared me to death. I ran in there and he was shaking like a leaf. It's been since then that he has been refusing to go to bed. He doesn't say he is scared though. I'm not sure if I should just let him sleep in our bed and work things out for himself or if I should persist, persist, persist until I get my good sleeper back but I don't want to make things worse. It's so confusing as to what to do. I don't want to redo his room until closer to Christmas.

I hope that your little one gets things settled in the sleeping department before your next bub arrives xx