No time to reply right now but there are 2 thread here that might be helpful

https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...-child-177188/

https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...-child-177187/
Do you know if the articles mentioned at the start of these threads got written ? I did a quick look on main site and couldn’t find but I was on phone so might have missed.