Yeah don't worry, super/super legislation is crazily confusing!

What you could look at is starting your own super fund, or SMSF.

Setting up a SMSF

Essentially, you would put your money from your settlement into this fund, and also rollover any existing super that you already have. The super fund itself (as an entity) would purchase the home as an investment (so bricks and mortar would be the super investment as opposed to shares/cash etc).

You, yourself, would not own the home, the super fund would.

It can work very well, you just have to set it up correctly